Resources

Recovery resources.

Helpful guides for men in recovery and the families who love them — crisis lines, meeting finders, what sober living really involves, and honest answers to the questions we get asked most.

Asking for help rarely starts with a dramatic moment. It usually starts with a question: is this bad enough to need something? What does sober living actually mean? Where would I even begin? This page collects the answers we give most often — whether you're asking for yourself, for your son or brother, or for a client.

Everything here is free and asks nothing of you. None of it commits you to a bed, a program, or a decision, and none of it replaces medical care — if someone is in danger, call 911 first. Read at your own pace, then reach out when you're ready.

If you need help tonight.

These are national lines, not ours — they exist for exactly this moment, and you don't need to have anything figured out before you call.

Questions about the house itself — availability, visits, admissions — go to us directly at (213) 302-1145. Staff are on site around the clock.

Fellowships & groups

Find your room.

There is no single right way to do recovery, and no reason to try to find it alone. These organizations are free to attend, open to anyone who wants to stop using, and have meetings in and around Tarzana — in person and online.

If a group works for you, go. If it doesn't, try another. Residents at Next Phase are encouraged to look around until they find something they'll actually keep doing.

We don't just hand you a list.

A phone number is easy to find and easy to ignore. Living here, the same resources come with someone who notices whether you used them.

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Find the right room

Not every meeting fits every man. Staff know the local meeting landscape and help you try a few until one feels like somewhere you'd actually go back to.

How meeting support works

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Build a weekly rhythm

Recovery holds when it's scheduled, not when it's urgent. We help you lay out a real week — meetings, work, gym, meals, and downtime — so the days have a shape.

See how case management works

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Get there

A missed meeting or appointment shouldn't come down to a car. We provide transportation to meetings, therapy, doctor and court appointments until you're back on your feet.

Read about transportation support

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Keep the momentum

Round-the-clock staff, a drug-tested house, groceries covered, and men in the same boat — the ordinary structure that makes a good decision easier to repeat.

Meet the support around the clock

The questions families ask first.

What is sober living, actually?

A substance-free home with real structure — rules, routine, accountability and community — for men who've already decided to change. It isn't treatment and it isn't a facility; it's a house where you live and do the work.

Read the full explanation

How do I choose a home in Los Angeles?

Ask who is on site at night, how drug testing runs, what's included, and whether you can visit before you move in. The answers tell you more than any website will.

Read what to ask before you choose

What does a first day look like?

Your room, your belongings, a walk through the house and the rules, and a conversation about the week ahead. The kitchen is stocked and someone is always there, so nothing is left to chance on day one.

See what to expect

Why does connection matter so much?

Because using is usually a lonely business, and recovery has to be a shared one. The opposite of addiction is connection — that's the whole reason this house is built around living together instead of apart.

Read the essay on connection

You can call first.

You don't need him to agree before you ask questions, and you don't need to have anything solved. Most families come to us already exhausted from carrying it alone. Talk to us about what you're seeing, what you've already tried, and what would have to be true for this to feel safe.

Where the house is.

4640 Dunas Ln, Tarzana, CA 91356. We serve men across Los Angeles and the surrounding areas — the San Fernando Valley, the Westside, and the South Bay.

Take the next step

Come see the house.

4640 Dunas Ln, Tarzana, CA 91356

Call us(213) 302-1145